For me a sure fire way to get ignored: Hi/Hey/Hello or any other variant Sexy/babe/darling etc You look hottext speak If you ask how I am doing with meeting people on here, then I will be honest and tell you I am talking to people or meeting them, its then up to you to stand out so I pick you.
Most guys dont bother replying if they think they have competition (or so I have found)For me picking something out of my profile to comment on, or asking a random question.
That is a sure fire sign of I want to charm the pants off you as quickly as I can... I would just be natural, talk about what caught your interest on their profile. Don't call women sweetie, darling, cutie, or any other pet name until you know them really well...
They don't even know me and they are starting that... There's nothing more cringe-worthy than body compliments or pet names in initial messages.
You won't get much responses either way, so experiment. I loved your profile..even though we don't have a lot in common...have certainly piqued my interest in your interests!
Honestly it makes me cringe when I am messaging a guy and he starts that...
They don't even know me and they are starting that...
That is a sure fire sign of I want to charm the pants off you as quickly as I can... It almost comes across as patronizing to me, like when people call you 'dear' but they're barely older than you. I prefer humour, personally, but not everyone will.
Proper spelling/grammar, no body compliments or 'ur sexi! One word messages also tend not to be a hit, but sometimes if your pic/profile are phenomenal they CAN pay off.
Okay ladies what do you look for in a message from guys that sparks your interest and helps to get the conversation started.