Red flags in dating a guy

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"I once got invited out to a nice dinner by a guy from work who had been flirting with me for a while.

We actually really hit it off, and were having a great time, but when the check came he broke it down item by item and made me pay 4 dollars more because my cocktail was more expensive than his beer.

These are small glimpses into our deeper undercurrent of crazy, and if you don't know what you're looking for, you might miss them.

So, in the interest of informing ourselves, I asked a few of my girlfriends what the biggest red flags are – even in the first few dates – that let you know it's just not going to work out in the long term.1.

Like it's not even so much about like 'I'm offended at this joke' so much as 'Why does the best version of yourself that you're trying to present on a date think that racist jokes are funny and charming? "If they get really drunk on the first date." - Nicky6.

"I think it obviously varies from person to person, but I've always found that people who complain too much about past relationships, or dating in general, are not good for relationships.

"I think there are a few things that really let you know the guy is not relationship material. "When I was dating this guy back in college (aka when I had really low self-esteem and didn't know about feminism yet), he told me on the second date that he really "liked his girl to stay in shape and keep it neat down there" and insecure 19-year-old me was like "omg I expect the same from myself." Like how much more pathetic could I have been, by the way?

No significant smells of any kind should ever be allowed on a date." - Julie12.Like it's normal to be like, 'Yeah, I've had a hard time with dating,' but sometimes people get SO wrapped up in their resentments about the dating world, and it's just not healthy.If you're complaining about ten different people in one conversation, maybe the problem was you? "There is a "douchebag first date look" that always ends badly.Some are as harmless as “He takes way too many selfies,” and others are as dangerous as “He forces me to call him daddy."I have compiled my list of top red flags that qualify as deal breakers, which call for the end of a relationship all together.As I am a woman who has only dated guys, I’m really only qualified to give out a list of red flags for men.But them being too quiet isn't good either, like you need to have a good balance from the first date or it's probably not going to get better with time.

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