Then, learn to discern your heart from your rational mind. Your inner voice may not always be clear, but it’s trying to tell you something. To start, you’ll need to temporarily drown out our rational thought processes and focus on the voice.If you’re an intelligent man who is usually smarter than most of the people you meet, it can be frustrating to realize that other guys with far less brain power than you seem to be fighting women off with a stick. Why isn’t your intelligence giving you a clear advantage when it comes to women?The diagram below shows a hypothetical example of an “intelligent guy” who knows a LOT about mathematics, but doesn’t know much about what it takes to be successful with women, how to attract women and how to maintain a great relationship with a woman.Just because the guy is academically intelligent, it doesn’t automatically mean he will be socially or emotionally intelligent or know what it takes to be successful with women.Highly intelligent people think analytically, even when it comes to things like relationships.Therefore, intelligent people realize that being alone is better than being with the wrong person. So, in essence, most really smart people are single because they want to be.Smart people want to succeed in life and that’s completely respectable.
If experience is the best teacher, then the smartest people will rely on experience to guide them.
Sometimes, intelligent people are the ones who hurt themselves in a relationship.
They tend to analyse every minor subject, so they create bigger problems.
That’s why smart people are the ones who are somewhat “late” to settle down.
I don’t really see anything bad with that, since we all choose to make some little “sacrifices”.
In fact, most of the times your life will be imperfect. The reason is really simple: intelligent people value intelligence in others as well. They need to truly know the other person, their hobbies and their personality, to decide if they’re the one. However, if you are an intelligent person, you should be careful; if you waste too much time deciding if the other person is the right partner, they might run away and then you’ll end up alone.