Make sure you post at least a few pictures of yourself; face pics definitely increase your chances of getting a reply (although you can limit to showing your face to 'friends' only).Then, hit the groups in your geographical region that cater to singles, and post a note with what you're seeking.: You'll get bombarded here just for creating a profile, so make sure to keep your needs and desires up front for all to see.For those convinced that they'll find the perfect hookup online however, here's where I'd suggest starting.When I asked a male friend of mine if they thought Craigslist deserved top ranking on my list of places to find a sexual encounter online, they loudly said, "Are you kidding?! Yea, it works." Almost everyone I've spoken to who has used CL to hookup has had success; those that failed to find what they sought were either rude, exceptionally picky, or ignored my tips below.: Focus on replying to ads rather than posting them, make sure you have a fantastic, recent and clear picture of your face (keep the junk pictures to yourself for now), and share this picture along with a personalized first reply - most gals can spot a copied and pasted response a mile away.Oh, and if you're outside of what the ad wants?Skip it.: Focus on posting an ad instead of replying to them, and know that there's a good chance it'll get flagged within 24 hours. There are a great number of folks on CL who are bitter, angry and/or frustrated with their lack of hooking up, and they'll automatically assume anyone who seems 'normal' is a prostitute.Step 1: Cook Together Food is a bonding experience especially when you make it yourselves.Movie dates can be fun and can always be clubbed with dinner or something else to stretch the date for a long time.
This is most definitely an anything goes type of place, so do take that into account when visiting.: Flesh out your profile fully with details about what you're after, what you offer, and where you're at relationship-wise.Don't talk or text during the movie, but don't be afraid to get physical.Here are my dating tips for the 3-Step Staycation, the perfect date to make the first move.: Fill out your profile as much as possible, and then spend an hour or two answering questions.It should be fun, give you a better idea as to what you're after, and allow you a pretty decent (and accurate) matching mechanism for similarly-minded folks.Arrive early and greet your date with a "hello" and a hug.