If you're single and hoping to get into a relationship, knowing your own type and the type of those you're meeting and dating can save you a lot of confusion and heartache! Avoiders believe (or desperately hope) love will "just happen." They can easily find reasons to disqualify potential partners, and feel intimidated by intimacy, especially when they are being pursued.Tips for the Avoider: Avoiders need to stop avoiding and start dating.They don't easily move on if their attraction to another is not reciprocated or the other person isn't seeking a relationship.
The goal here is not perfection - it's knowing that you have something special to offer and you don't have to settle for anyone who doesn't excite you and fulfill your needs.
They can be highly critical of those they're not already emotionally invested in and see their crush as nearly perfect.
Dreamers can spend a lot of time frustrated by the inability or unwillingness of their "dream" partner to materialize or commit to them.
Tips for the Nurturer/Protector: This dating type can result in well balanced relationships when the person being nurtured/protected is on the same page and enjoys this dynamic.
If, however, the Nurturer/Protector finds her or himself in out of balance relationships that lead to resentment, and heartache, take a step back.
New thinking takes practice - you're not likely to magically wake up one day and find yourself going on lots of dates without a concerted effort to do things differently than you have before now.