This is definitely something to share before a dinner party, not during it.
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You list some sex toys and accessories that you include in your sex play, but you haven’t tried the one type whose sole function is to stimulate to orgasm: a well-chosen vibrator.
Having your partner use the vibrator with you, maybe using his fingers at the same time, may be what your body needs to get over the hump (so to speak) toward more and better orgasms.
My sexual relationship with my spouse had been seriously lacking for a long time, and I went years without orgasms. I have watched my lover masturbate and he wants to watch me, but I really don’t know what to do or how to do it. He stimulates me both manually and orally and will continue for as long as necessary in an attempt to satisfy me.Your kids may not get the idea the first time, but once they've heard Irene's name three or four times, they'll figure it out.When you think they get the idea, let them know more clearly: "Irene and I have been seeing quite a bit of each other.Your attitude is terrific — you enjoy the sexual interaction whether or not it leads to orgasm, and you’re eager to explore.I’d like to suggest one adjustment in the way you’re looking at this, though: Let go of the expectation that to achieve your goal, you need to have sex in this one position that used to work for you.We are able to communicate effortlessly about what works and doesn’t work.